Reminder to future self

a successful marriage requires falling in love many times, always with the same person. why is this so difficult to achieve?

money might be the cause, some might said. allurement maybe? differences enlarged post-marriage? whatever the cause is, please don't forget to recall back how and why you felt in love with this person at the very first place.

It really depends on how deep is the love between both. 

Seriously, ''happily ever after'' is not a tale, it's in fact a ''choice'' 

I really hope i will always and forever bare this in mind.

                喜欢一个人，是看到了他的优点,

爱一个人，是把他的缺点看成了优点.

既然爱上了,为什么结婚后，优点又变回了缺点？